Whatever it is you're seeking, if one avenue doesn't work, try another. Don't give up on desire. I think what we want can often be found (and indeed, even wants to be found), but it may come from a different path or source that we may not have considered. So be open to trying something new. Or even better, seeing in a new way. Potentially anything can be a source of life if our vision changes. And actually, our vision changing is arguably a key to most fundamental life shifts.